This is Why I’m a Red Pill Pusher

Posted: November 16, 2013 in Red Pill Rules, Wife, Women
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I already posted this at Dalrock’s, but I wanted to comment on it even further.

I saw this article in the comment thread:

Wife’s Experience Leaves Him Frustrated

DEAR ABBY: This is my wife’s second marriage. When we were dating, she led me to believe that I was the second sexual partner she had ever had. Shortly after our wedding, I found out through some mutual acquaintances she had attended college with that she had been very promiscuous during her college years and that the number of men she has been with is far greater than two.

I feel lied to and trapped in my marriage. (If I had known this, I would not have married her.) She knows I know. She dismissed it by saying the past doesn’t matter, but what she fails to recognize is that it matters to me. I can’t help but wonder if she has lied to me about something this important, what else will she lie to me about?

What do I do?
– Confounded in the South

Clear Red Flags:

-Her second marriage. Did you vet her about what went wrong with the first one? And even if you did, I’m sure that she said it was all her ex’s fault.

-She lied to you about something as important as N count. No integrity.

-Minimizing your feelings/concern/perspective by saying “the past doesn’t matter.” Um, if it didn’t matter then why did she feel the need to lie?

He asked what he should do. What you do is take the Red Pill son, and accept some things:

1) Women lie about their N count because they know innately that being a slut is shameful
2) Women lie & manipulate & do whatever they have to do to secure a man’s resources without remorse or apology(and religious women have a Come to Jesus moment later to wipe it all away)
3) A woman is only there to secure your resources; she never has, and never will, give a damn about what you want or need
4) Women will bargain their short window of SMV for a lifetime of payments from you with a sense of brazen entitlement, and will call you a misogynist for not eagerly agreeing to their terms
5) NEVER ask a woman for advice about anything, but ESPECIALLY relationships. Do you think she, or the beta knighters in the comment thread are going to see it from your perspective?
…The Red Pill will set you free.

But check out Abby’s “advice:”

DEAR CONFOUNDED: People lie when they feel threatened, when they want to impress someone or when they’re ashamed of something. The lie your wife told you may fall into the latter category. She wasn’t honest about the number of men she had been with because she knew you would react the way you have.

You say you love her, but if you truly mean that, you either need to change your attitude or do her a favor and think about ending your marriage. From my perspective, the number of lovers she has had since the wedding is far more important than the number she had before.

Please be aware that many women in our society have had multiple partners, so if you’re looking to replace your wife any time soon, you may be hard-pressed to find a woman with no experience. If you want to salvage your marriage, I strongly recommend you talk with a therapist, but don’t spend your money unless you can forgive your wife for being afraid to tell you the truth.

….Did you catch all of that?

She felt threatened, i.e., it’s your fault that she had to lie. It was your reaction that she feared that’s the problem, not her well deserved sense of shame or clear lack of integrity.

You have to prove your love to her, by changing your attitude, but be aware that she has most likely already cheated on you anyway, so prepare to end the marriage. She doesn’t have to repent, change, show remorse or come clean. You have to do her a favor, the one that started this relationship with a huge lie.

-Have no expectation of chastity of any woman in today’s society, get ready to foot the bill for therapy, and remember, you have to forgive her.

Not one shred of responsibility required on the part of the SlutBag wife.

But we’re not done; check out some of the comments:

    • Posted 9:10 AM, 11/15/2013

      Seriously???? Did you just arrive via the way back machine from the 50’s ?I also find it hard to believe you were straight up about things going on with you in the past.You sound like one of those southern Bible beaters. Ok, do like the good book says and forgive the woman.Oh and seek professional help. You sound like you have other issues.— vrb1955

  • Posted 9:20 AM, 11/15/2013
    • LW1-let her go; she obviously made a mistake when she thought she needed to shade the truth to satisfy you.— CanisMaximus

  • Posted 9:34 AM, 11/15/2013
  • LW1- What’s past is past. Get over it!

  • Posted 10:51 AM, 11/15/2013

    L1- You are a tool. Even women in the Amish/Mennonite community had more than 2 partners before marriage. Do your wife a favor and send her my way.


Unreal. The man is SOL and it’s his fault. Accept the Slut Nation you dweeb!

Oh well, clearly men have to keep getting burned before they learn.

  1. metak says:

    In my humble opinion, men that write letters to some “Abby” and are asking for advice, deserve a mercy shot in the forehead (what they get anyway). 🙂

    • Or the nuts.
      Writing Dear Abby about a cheating wife means you’re done anyway.

      • metak says:

        I was just reading Dalrock’s post about men withdrawing from courtship and came here.

        He’s pissed that he bought puss-puss in a bag or maybe that should be a bag where puss-puss used to be… anyway, I do kinda
        laugh at these stupid men. Can’t help it and by the looks of it they’ll also never learn. Oh well…

      • My question is, where do we go next? What’s the future for relationships post feminism?

  2. metak says:

    Please bear in mind that I’m just following manosphere and what’s happening in the west, mostly out of curiosity. I don’t understand why you’re using this term ‘post feminism’. Feminism is very much alive and kicking I’m afraid. This post feminist phase is still in the future. I wouldn’t worry much about it if were you… History shows us that this is the final stage before the ‘shit-hits-the-fan’.

    I see mgtow as best option because so many women nowadays are married to government and the man is just a tied up loser in the corner of the room during this ‘three-some’. That is when he’s not providing for family and producing stuff that makes government possible…

    Sorry for this mini-rant… 🙂

  3. earl says:

    It’s very tradcon way of thinking…following mistakes and trying to clean them up. Man up and marry the slut.

    Sure she made mistakes…it’s up to you to fix her.

    That’s not for me…I make my mistakes, I fix my mistakes. I’m not taking on someone else’s baggage.

    • Man up and marry the slut.

      Sure she made mistakes…it’s up to you to fix her.

      Exactly. This has become the whole tenor & tone for marriage. She continually gets unlimited freedom, he continually gets unlimited responsibility.

      I’m not taking on someone else’s baggage.
      Again, exactly. How’d you like to marry a woman knowing that she’s continually thinking about somebody else while you’re having sex? And while you’re out there working?


  4. Rick says:

    Hahaha i will just marry with a virgin.. Like it is impossible i am a mgtow losers.. Learn if she is not virgin she is promiscuous

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