Shocked, Bitter, Angry Men

There’s been some buzz around the ‘Sphere about how there are so many “jaded, cynical men” making comments on various blog posts and giving cynical advice. I touched on it briefly here, but now I need to go deeper.

Most Red Pill men are working through some level of shock after taking the Red Pill, the same way Neo did when Morpheus first gave it to him, and explained the construct. After Neo rejects reality, pukes, and takes a nap, Morpheus apologizes. He also tells Neo that “we never free a mind after a certain age,” because Morpheus understood the rough but necessary adjustment period that comes with the knowledge of the truth. And, that it would be better to learn the truth as a boy, and grow up unplugged. Here are the stages/forms of Red Pill shock that can be seen in men:

The Frivorced

This is a man who has lost his house, regular access to his children, at least half of his present income, and a significant portion of his pension, all because his wife announced to him one day that she was unhaaaaapy. And this often completely blindsides the man, as he has spent most of the marriage trying to do everything he could to please her. This is a man that’s getting an education on the Predatory Nature of Females.  And how the full weight of the State is going to come down against him for the rest of his life. He most often has bought into the ‘good husband’ lies taught by both Churchian and secular spheres, and has now had his world completely blow up, right in his face.

The Cuckolded

This is a man that’s been splattered in the face with the seed of another man, after said seed has first been all over his wife. He has either discovered an ongoing affair, or discovered that some or all of his children have been fathered by his wife’s lover. Some other rooster has dominated his hen house, and yet he has been paying for the eggs. This is a man coming face to sperm with the truth that most women stay immature during the course of their lives, and need to be constantly entertained, controlled, dominated, restrained and subjugated…or, they will very quickly and unapologetically open their legs to a powerful seductive cad that’s anywhere in their vicinity. As I’ve said before, women with any amount of freedom, without being in submission to a man, will complete the AF/Beta Bucks cycle every time. Extra anger points for those men that feel compelled to stay in the marriage because of honor or religion.

The Virginal Nice Guy

This is the man that is both naturally a beta, and has completely integrated the Hallmark Valentine’s Day mantra into his psyche. He truly believes that being a supplicative and supportive man is the way to go….yet he finds himself being the tampon of many a hot woman. He absorbs her discharge as she complains about her abusive boyfriend, and then runs back to him at every possible turn. This poor guy just can’t get laid and burns up decades of his life not understanding why. He then comes to the realization that his future will only ever be full of leftovers….women that have racked up an N count of 30 or more, and will only ever bring him their worn out bodies and post Wall looks, asking him yet again for emotional and financial support, and to live with all of her Alpha Widowness on full display.

The Combination Man

This dude has had the unfortunate experience of being two, or even all three of the above. Maybe he got laid for the first time late in life, maybe he was a virgin when he got married, he did everything he could to be supportive to his wife and family and somehow got both cuckolded and frivorced before the age of 40, and is reeling from all that’s happened. And the events of his life have force fed him the Red Pill…..and he’s most likely choking on it. Rejecting it, not believing it, embarrassed, ashamed, and very unsure of what to do next.

All males that have taken the Red Pill, for whatever reason, can resonate with any other man that’s in the throes of discovery. He’s being violently ripped out of his pod, seeing the world as it really is for the first time, maybe after three to four decades of living fully plugged in. Hence, no male is really shocked by observing the outrage in his fellow man that follows the unplugging. So where are the women in all this?

The Women

The women are where they’ve always been, swimming in the juices of their Female Imperative. Here’s what men, especially newly awakened men don’t yet fully get: none of the Red Pill truths that we discover are news to women. They know how they are….they’ve always known. They’ve always been manipulative, always wanted Alphas, always been willing to be seduced by whatever man is the most powerful in their immediate sphere, and have always been able to rationalize and justify their behavior, no matter how selfish or immoral. They are, in effect, giving us a great big “DUH” look, and laughing all the way to the bank, and their current lover’s bed. As far as women are concerned, men that don’t “just get it?” …..deserve everything that happens to them. Don’t expect any woman….from the one that made you take the Red Pill, to any that you encounter afterwards…..to be able to relate or understand. Or even care.

What about the women that claim that they’re trying to do better? So far, those women are still following the script of AF and Beta Bucks…it’s just that they’ve landed their Alpha, so of course they’re happier. And exceptions don’t disprove the rule. That’s why we call them “exceptions.”

The Root of It All

As men, there’s a deeper truth here that needs to be stated. The thing that really triggers all the anger, beyond the obvious surface stimuli….is the fact that men hate, with an unbridled passion, not knowing the rules of the game that they’re playing. We are so goal, rule, structure, and boundary oriented, that to be competing in a contest where the rules are unclear is anathema to the male spirit. For men, realizing that the world you knew was a complete lie, and you were a fool working against his own best interests is akin to a blazing dagger being plunged into the masculine brain, and the pain may never fully go away. Where the female of the species feeds on drama, and its generation fuels and sustains her interest, us males revile it, and would always choose a winning strategy if we know what the real game is, no bullshit necessary. So as we comment? Many times, it’s that blazing dagger, slicing through yet another brain cell, fueling the words being spoken.

All men need to take the Red Pill; sooner is always better than later. Start here.